“Wives ,sisters and mothers do not always seek punishment; often, they seek treatment because they fear losing someone they love to addiction.”

The recent remarks by the Hon’ble Lieutenant Governor of Jammu & Kashmir, Shri Manoj Sinha, where he shared that families had asked authorities to arrest their own children to save them from drugs, reveal the depth of helplessness many families are experiencing today.
Indian Express Report

At first glance, such statements may appear harsh. But beneath them lies a painful reality: many families are not demanding punishment — they are desperately searching for intervention before addiction destroys another life.

Addiction Is Not Only a Law-and-Order Issue

Over the years, while working in addiction recovery, behavioral health, and rehabilitation settings, one observation repeatedly emerges:

Addiction rarely affects only the individual.

It affects:

families,
relationships,
neighborhoods,
workplaces,
and community safety.

In many homes, addiction and violence become deeply intertwined. Substance use can intensify emotional instability, aggression, domestic conflict, and fear within families. At times, families themselves become emotionally reactive, exhausted, and traumatized by repeated relapse cycles.

The chronic relapsing nature of addiction creates frustration not only among caregivers but also among professionals and systems trying to respond.

I have personally witnessed moments where:

trained social workers,
peer educators,
health professionals,
and even family members

became emotionally overwhelmed or reactive while dealing with persons struggling with addiction.

Police personnel are no exception. They too are human beings responding within emotionally charged environments.

The Role of Police: Between Toughness and Protection

During my work with the Delhi Police Foundation for Correction, De-addiction and Rehabilitation, I came across a senior police officer who, out of desperation and concern, briefly kept his own son in a police station to help interrupt his involvement with drugs.

This was not simply punishment. It reflected fear, helplessness, and the struggle families experience while trying to protect someone they love.

The challenge is that addiction often forces systems to operate in blurred spaces between:

care and control,
empathy and enforcement,
protection and accountability.

This is where discretion and balance become essential.

“The Beat Constable Is a Social Worker With Authority”

In February 2018, during a Capacity Building Programme on Drug Abuse organized by the Department of Social Work, Central University of Jammu in collaboration with the National Institute of Social Defence, Delhi, I had the opportunity to interact with police officers from Jammu & Kashmir.
Police Is a Social Worker With Authority – Nada News Update

During that interaction, I emphasized:

“The beat constable is a real social worker with authority.”

This statement becomes increasingly relevant today.

The beat constable:

understands the local community,
recognizes vulnerable youth,
witnesses family distress,
sees early behavioral changes,
and often becomes the first responder before any formal rehabilitation system becomes involved.

In regions facing growing drug crises, policing alone cannot solve addiction. But policing can become an important bridge toward:

prevention,
referral,
rehabilitation,
and community stabilization.

Toughness for Violence, Empathy for Addiction

One of the most important distinctions society must learn is this:

Violence and addiction are not identical problems.

Addiction requires:

empathy,
emotional support,
treatment,
behavioral stabilization,
and long-term recovery systems.

Violence, however, still carries consequences.

The difficulty arises when both become intertwined:

violence used under intoxication,
manipulation through addiction,
domestic abuse,
intimidation of family members,
or repeated harmful behavior.

This is where systems must develop the maturity to:

remain non-judgmental toward addiction,
while still maintaining accountability for violence.

Both compassion and boundaries are necessary.

The Analogy of Two Hands

In many situations, recovery requires “two hands” working together:

One hand:

law enforcement,
structure,
legal accountability,
immediate protection,
crisis intervention.

The other hand:

rehabilitation,
counseling,
peer support,
emotional regulation,
community reintegration,
and continuity of care.

Without balance, systems fail.

Punishment alone cannot sustain recovery.

But recovery without accountability can also become unstable.

Why Relapse Prevention Matters

One of the greatest gaps in addiction systems today is not detoxification — it is relapse prevention and continuity of care.

Many individuals stabilize inside treatment centers:

they sleep better,
feel calmer,
become emotionally regulated,
and begin reconnecting with themselves.

But once discharged, they often return to:

the same stress,
the same peer pressure,
unemployment,
emotional isolation,
unresolved trauma,
and lack of support systems.

Recovery cannot survive in isolation.

It requires:

listening communities,
support circles,
family engagement,
structured follow-up,
and emotionally safe spaces.

NADA Protocol and “Circles of Hope”

The NADA Protocol should not be viewed as a stand-alone cure for addiction. Rather, it may serve as an adjunct supportive intervention that helps:

reduce stress,
improve sleep,
support emotional regulation,
enhance engagement,
and create calmer group environments.

Its deeper value often lies in the environment it helps create:

Circles of hope,

shared silence,
peer connection,
and non-verbal listening spaces.

These group settings can support people who may otherwise struggle to engage with formal systems.

Moving Forward

The growing drug crisis in many parts of India, including Jammu & Kashmir, demands a broader response that combines:

public health,
behavioral science,
policing,
rehabilitation,
family systems,
and community engagement.

Families asking police to intervene is not merely a call for punishment.

It is a signal that society urgently needs:

more accessible recovery ecosystems,

more emotional support systems,
and more humane pathways for intervention before lives are lost.

Addiction recovery is not built only through fear or force.

It is built through accountability, care, continuity, and communities willing to keep listening even after relapse occurs.

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