Parents may need counseling more than kids

By Jann Blackstone
McClatchy-Tribune News Service

Published: September 21, 2013

Q: I moved out of the house five months ago and in with a woman because I couldn’t afford a place by myself. We were not together — I needed a roommate after I separated and I wanted to be close to the kids, ages 12 and 13. Now we are in love, and the kids seem to like her, but their mother tells me they are very upset, and my ex is sabotaging both my relationship with the kids and my new girlfriend’s relationship with them. I think they need counseling, but their mother won’t bring them. I can’t believe how selfish she is being! What do you think?

Answer: I love it when parents who act stupid tell me their kids are screwed up and need counseling. My answer is always the same — YOU get counseling first and then see if your kids seem so screwed up......http://tbo.com/health/parents-may-need-counseling-more-than-kids-20130921/

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