Redefining Success: A Strength-Based Reflection on the Journey Beyond "12th Fail"

Greetings to our amazing network of peer-led drug and alcohol rehabilitation advocates! #restrat  Today, let's delve into the realm of cinema, where the recently released movie "12th Fail" has not only captivated audiences but also sparked reflections on the societal norms and expectations that shape our lives, particularly during the crucial phase of adolescence.
Firstly, let's applaud the trend of biopics being produced during the lifetime of individuals, making it an empowering experience for those who choose to share their inspiring stories. "12th Fail" revolves around the real-life journey of Manoj Kumar Sharma, a resilient soul who overcame extreme poverty to become an Indian Police Service officer.
The title itself, "12th Fail," carries immense weight. It's not just a descriptor of an academic outcome but a reflection of societal norms that define success and failure. The movie skilfully explores how the concept of failure can become a label, triggering points for many who might have escaped or hidden their struggles. It challenges the societal narrative that urges us to avoid, hide, or escape failure at all costs.
The narrative hits a nerve by illustrating how norms are created and accepted, often unconsciously, during adolescence. This phase, characterized by experimentation, ambiguity, and a quest for fairness, is unfortunately treated as a mere precursor to the future, rather than being valued as an asset in the present.
"12th Fail" questions the very definition of success and normalcy, portraying the journey of Manoj Kumar Sharma as he navigates a society that unconsciously defines what is "normal." The dialogue, "Bani Banai Vavyastha," becomes a powerful reflection of the societal structures and norms that shape individuals' lives.
In the context of the movie, the character of DSP Dushyant Singh becomes crucial in highlighting the impact of education policies and the commercial exploitation by coaching industries, especially in small towns and major cities like Delhi. The film successfully warns about the dangers of blindly following norms without questioning their impact on individuals' mental well-being.
Drawing a parallel with the cautionary note on the societal impact of AI (Artificial Intelligence), we are reminded that the new normal can inadvertently criminalize individuals, much like the character Manoj Kumar Sharma who finds himself caught in a system he unknowingly contributed to. The movie prompts us to reflect on whether we have the "right to fail" and encourages us to embrace change while safeguarding our mental health.
As we advocate for a drug ,alcohol and tobacco Free-free future, let's also champion the right to redefine success, challenge societal norms, and foster an environment where failure is not stigmatized but embraced as a part of growth. Remember, our norms shape our lives, and it's during adolescence that they are tested and defined. Let's ensure our young India isn't seen as a liability but as a dividend for positive change.
Stay strong, stay reflective, and let's continue making a difference!
Warm regards,

NYIN Team